5 Toys for Couples to Experiment in Bed
Looking for ways to turn the heat up? Trying a toy together is one of the easiest ways to add something new to your routine - no big commitment, no complicated setup, just a new sensation to explore as a couple. Here are five toys worth trying, and what makes each one different.
1. Skore Shiver - Best for First-Timers
If you're trying a couple's toy for the first time, Shiver is the easiest place to start. It's a simple, single-mode vibrating ring worn at the base of the penis, made from soft, body-safe silicone, and delivers up to 60 minutes of vibration per use. No remotes, no modes to figure out - just place it, turn it on, and go.
2. Skore Buzzz - Best for Remote-Control Play
Once you're comfortable with the basics, Skore Buzzz Ring adds a playful new layer: it's a remote-controlled vibrating ring with 8 vibration modes, so one partner can control the intensity from a distance - hands-free, in the moment, or as a bit of teasing before things heat up. It's rechargeable, water-resistant, and even includes mood lighting for the different modes.
3. Skore Vybes - Best for Longer Sessions
Vybes is built for couples who don't want to watch the clock. It's a waterproof, rechargeable vibrating ring with 7 vibration modes and up to 90 minutes of continuous use per charge - one of the longer-lasting options in Skore's range, and fully safe to use in the shower.
4. Skore Thrills - Best Dual-Use Massager
Thrills works a little differently - it's a dual-loop massage ring designed to deliver shared, targeted stimulation to both partners at once, rather than sitting in a single spot. It's IPX5 water-resistant, portable enough to travel with, and works equally well as a couple's toy or for solo use.
5. Skore Tremor - Best for Intense, Shared Sensation
Tremor steps things up with a dual-motor design and a unique ball strap - built to deliver stronger, more targeted vibration to both partners at once. It offers 10 pulse modes via remote control, up to 60 minutes of use per charge, and is IPX6 waterproof. It's a great pick for couples who've tried a standard ring before and want something more powerful.
How to Introduce a Toy to Your Partner
-
Bring it up outside the bedroom first. A relaxed conversation removes the pressure of an in-the-moment ask.
-
Frame it as an experiment, not a fix. Toys work best as an addition to your routine, not a solution to a problem - that framing keeps things low-pressure for both partners.
-
Start on the lowest setting. Almost every Skore ring or massager has multiple intensity modes - start gentle and build up together.
-
Keep lubricant on hand. A water-based lubricant makes any toy more comfortable to use, especially the first time.
-
Talk about limits beforehand. A quick check-in on what feels good (and what doesn't) makes the whole experience more relaxed for both people.
FAQs
Are couple's toys safe to use with condoms?
Yes. Skore's vibrating rings and massagers are designed to be used alongside condoms without affecting how the condom works.
Do I need to charge these before first use?
Rechargeable rings like Buzzz, Vybes, Thrills, and Tremor should be charged before first use - check the included instructions for charge time. Single-use rings like Shiver come ready to use out of the box.
Can these toys be used for solo play too?
Most of them, yes - a massager like Thrills works well for solo use, while rings like Shiver, Buzzz, Vybes, and Tremor are primarily designed to be worn during partnered play.
What's the easiest toy to start with as a couple?
Shiver is the simplest starting point - single mode, no remote, no learning curve.
Final Thoughts
You don't need to overhaul your entire routine to add some novelty - one toy, introduced with a little communication, is often enough to make things feel new again. Start with whichever of these fits your comfort level, and go from there.
Ready to explore? Shop Skore's full range of rings and massagers →
This article is for general informational purposes and isn't a substitute for medical advice.